Well, he has been ignoring me after the last time we were together (when I conceived) because he met a girl, whom i found out about because the girl works with my roommate. I sent him a text last night that said, “we need to talk, it’s very important!” He has not responded. So now what?! If this helps to know his step brother is a good friend of mine. Should I get him involved? The thing that scares me the most is the fact my unborn child’s father never wants kids. I’ve known him since I was 16 and I’m 21, I’ve seen him interact with kids and well….he doesn’t. I am going to have this child, I only have a yr left with my bachelors degree in health information management and my classes are online, but he is the father. I want my child to have a father!!! And I’m going to need help financially, in reality most people can’t afford a child.